I have kind of mentioned this before but I don’t mind doing this again.
It took me YEARS to be as comfortable with my body as I am now. The main thing was that you have to learn that you are awesome the way you are and that your body is beautiful no mater what, because the human form is beauty (just ask the ancient Greeks and Romans).
My personal process of finally accepting myself happened after a break up.
I had been with this guy for OVER 2 years and after I almost broke up with him but didn’t because he literally begged me not to, so I promised him one more chance, he broke up with Me a week later ON CHRISTMAS via Text Message. At first I was heart broken…at one point if he had asked me to marry him, I would have said yes (would have been the biggest mistake EVER), so suddenly having that relationship gone was scary and sad. I felt like I had lost a dream…and a dream really all it was. After reflecting and actually looking at the relationship and talking to friends I realized that I had been emotionally abused and that all my friends had wanted to say something but felt it wasn’t their place too. Well after assuring my friends that if that ever happened again that I gave my FULL permission to slap some sense into me, I realized that I really was way too good for him. Not only was it my personality but the fact that I put up with a lot of shit that he did. My friends said I had the patience of a saint for staying with him so long. Well… To sum up the story and skip some of the details that would talk a while to type, I realized that I am Awesome and that I deserve better, and I noticed all the large and little reasons to why I am a cool person. After accepting that I started to accept other things and one of those things was my body. I accepted that I knew I was a little over weight but I still can be Damn Sexy when I want to be. That I could wear better fitting clothing and I looked better in them, That I could care about my appearance a little more and people responded well to that. One of the biggest things is that I told myself I was sexy, and that confidence seems to show, even if people don’t realize it. Another thing that I did to help get more comfortable in my skin was I started to go around in less and less clothing till I am now comfortable being naked. Before I only was okay with it during sex, and then immediately after I would put my clothes back on, NOW I just LOVE lounging around with nothing on with or without someone with me. Another thing I did was WAY before I started this blog, I would have little photo shoots while I felt sexy. They would remind me that even when i felt terrible, that I was sexy… once I started this blog, now if I start to feel that way I just have to look at all the people that think I am and it completely washes away that insecurity.
So, that is how I personally became okay with my body. It was more of a personal path that I had to go through… With that said, my advice is to try and realize these things that I did, but without having to go through what I did. There are unique things Big and Small that everyone has that makes them awesome, you just have to open yourself up to see them ! And when you do and you embrace it, people notice, and that can make you so much sexier than you can believe ! ! !
reblogging because I have had a few more asks about how I am comfortable with myself and since I have already answered it I thought it was worth sharing again.#text post #anon answer #porn blog #body positivity